There are no excuses, just an UNDERSTANDING of the WHY/REASONS FOR OUR OWN ACTIONS. All that counts is that our personal “why” is clear.
Additionally, there will be no explanations – just ACCEPTANCE of how things are as they are as a consequence of OUR OWN choices/decisions.
Definitely no regrets – simply GRATITUDE for the experiences and lessons gained from all events/actions.
Everything has two sides. It all relies on which one we prioritize and to which one we devote our energies. To be sure, life is brief and, to quote the Dalai Lama, “the aim of life is happy,” and it is entirely up to me just to determine how and what I may be, do, and have in order to be happy!
Additionally, the only things I have control over are my mind and actions (certainly not the minds or actions of others! ), so I’ll keep reminding myself to think nice things, imagine/visualize joyful things, and concentrate on my goals/dreams, and all will be OK in the end! :)))